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10/15/13

As each day passes bli ayin hora Eli shows more and more improvement. It takes a good few days after being in the hospital for a week to recover and for him to get back to himself. We are gradually getting Eli back into school for as long as he can handle. Monday he was there until 12 and today he was there until 1:30 and the hope for Wed is for him to be there until 2:30 until he can handle a full day.

Hopefully this trend will only continue and pick up speed. Eli has also gained a few pounds and beezrat hashem that will also move along as much as possible. IYH sometime this week Eli will have his first haircut in nearly 11 months!!

Please continue having Elimelech Ben Basya in mind in all your tefilos so that we can reach the goals ASAP and ultimate goal of a refua shelayma.

10/14/13

Eli made it to school for the first time since right before Rosh Hashana and he lasted as long as we had hoped for which was until lunch time. He was picked up at that point to head to CHLA for a scheduled DR appointment to make sure his blood levels are up to par where they need to be to continue taking accutane. BH the #s were good and Eli is now back on accutane for the next 2 weeks.

The next scheduled round of immunotherapy isn’t until Nov 3rd and we hope that Eli will continue making progress every day in his physical strength and weight before then. After the next round of immunotherapy Eli will have the regular scans to bli ayin hora make sure things are still all clean.

The hope for Tuesday is that Eli will have enough strength to either make it through a full day with his class or a good part of it. He was welcomed back with welcome back cards from his classmates and enjoyed reading each and every note.

As always please keep Elimelech Ben Basya bsoch shaar choley yisroel in all your tefilos etc

10/13/13

Eli spent the day at home relaxing and getting to know the new hamster we got for Aris birthday. Hopefully this was enough rest so that Eli will have the strength to last through the morning on Monday at school. The goal is to send him until about 1PM at which time he needs to head back to CHLA to make sure his blood levels are good enough to start accutane again for a 2 week period.

Please as always continue having Elimelech Ben Basya in mind in all your tefilos

10/12/13

Eli enjoyed the entire Shabos from start to end. He got to shul for all tefilos and was happy to be back where he belongs. He enjoyed the seudos and just being in his own bed. Shabos afternoon a few of Elis friends came to play and hang by our house which really lifted him up as well.

Eli continues to show daily improvements in many areas that are BH very encouraging. We hope that he will physically be up to being back in school this week as much as possible.

Other then a follow up DR appt on Monday we look forward beezrat hashem to a restful quiet week at home for Elimelech Ben Basya bsoch shaar choley yisroel. A GUT VOCH

10/11/13

BH we got home before 11AM and already we can see an improvement in Elis strength and mood. Always a short while after getting home his mood, strength and appetite grow.

We are looking forward to a much needed restful Shabos at home.

Please as always keep Elimelech Ben Basya in all your tefilos.
A GUT SHABOS

10/10/13

I am finally able to write fully what is going on here with Eli.

We have been warned and told that specifically this round of immunotherapy is EXTREMELY painful and best case scenario is that it gets done over the 10 hours a day for 4 days but they allow for 20 hours a day because most people can’t tolerate the pain so they slow it down or even shut it for periods of time.

Immunotherapy as I understand it (and yes I’m probably not exactly correct) is thru cancer research they have realized after injecting mice with neuroblastoma the mice with their own antibodies have been able to fight it and be cured without treatment. What they are ultimately doing is injecting these antibodies to help the body have more weapons if CV the machla ever tries to come back. So basically they are taking antibody from mice and injecting it thru IV into the human body. Since the human body doesn’t have the same genes or antibodies that mice do, the body tries to fight this and that’s what causes the pain. This weeks antibodies were 2 different ones when its usually only 1 antibody that’s why its generally the most painful.

So here’s the story: We prepared ourselves emotionally, physically and every way possible to make it in our heads as easy as possible for Eli and ourselves. I’m not sure in what or whose zchus but putting it mildly we may of had the easiest week in CHLA since Eli was diagnosed. To say that it was pain free is an understatement. Not for one second did Eli have pain and the DRs and RNs were completely shocked as they have seen kids have less pain then others but to have none is never seen. He didn’t push his morphine drip button once. In comparison the first week of immunotherapy Eli was pushing it almost as often as it allowed him to.

The IV ran every single day and not once did it need to pass 10 hours started at 12 noon and was done every day by 10PM. Aside from a few fevers which are almost for sure going to happen and 2 blood transfusions this week couldn’t of been more picture perfect as far as the DRs are concerned. They didn’t want Eli off the floor as they needed to monitor him for CV any side effects. But Eli said to bad we are going for a walk outside which we do every day they allow and he’s up to it and we did just that and felt so good after.

The reason I did not elaborate all week was simply for the fact that whenever we celebrated anything early the next day didn’t turn out the way we would of liked. And being that this week was planned as being the hardest and was the easiest I didn’t want to have any ayin horas.

Eli was visited by a few friends and he appreciated and enjoyed every single one of them. He was in a great mood which BH lasted all week long. He also has a new addition to his bed as he got a new HUGE teddy bear with the words “WE LOVE YOU KING ELI” from his aunts and uncles and he loves it.

We look forward to leaving CHLA for IYH a 3+ week break of immunotherapy. Eli hasn’t had a normal night sleep all week as they need to give tylenol every 4 hours and check vital signs every 2 hours. They also had him on medication at night which caused him to use the bathroom more often then usual so all in all we haven’t slept all week and we look forward to making up for it over Shabos and the next few weeks of “vacation”.

The plan is after a night of observation and his TPN IV is done to be discharged sometime in the AM hours on Friday. As long as Eli has the strength which we hope he will have the plan is to send him to school as often as possible for as many hours a day that he can handle starting next week.

This is all great news and we hope the news always stays as good if not better for Elimelech Ben Basya as we continue helping him get to the ultimate goal of a refua shelayma. Please as always continue to have him in mind in all your tefilos.

10/8/13

BH all is as well as can be and we hope for another 2 days like we had the last 2 Bli ayin hora. I will elaborate IYH Thursday night.

Elimelech Ben Basya bosch shaar choley yisroel amen

10/6/13

After a good night sleep Eli woke up and right away decided that today was the day he is going to have his cotton candy sale which he’s been waiting for to do a few months. Thanks to the many people that came and bought cotton candy Eli really appreciated it. Towards the end of his sale after being busy for a while with it he was exhausted and went for a rest.

At 8:30PM it was time to head back to CHLA. After going thru the admission process and getting to the room we realized why Eli was a little more weak then we expected him to be as his blood counts were low and he needed a blood transfusion which BH thanks to Bikur Cholim he has “yidishe” blood in a blood bank always waiting in case needed.

We are being told this week may well be the most brutal part of this entire treatment since diagnosis!!! It is a mixture of 2 different immunotherapries and it isn’t planned to be pleasant. If it goes as well as it can it is about 10 hours a day if it runs continuously if they need to turn it off or slow the rate down it will take longer. This will go on for Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday. Once its shut Thursday night they will keep him in CHLA until Friday morning for observation. After that we will look forward to a 3 week break of immunotherapy but the first 2 weeks will be back on accutane medication again.

These next few days will be very trying for Elimelech Ben Basya and he and we will need a lot of extra davening to get thru it and we appreciate anyone that does just that.